I Tried This Sex Toy And Had The Most Intense Orgasm Of My Life

My husband Dexter and I aren’t the kind of couple with a “goodie drawer.” And I never imagined we would be, either; I have a history of sex-toy scepticism, since every vibrator I’d ever seen before was either cold, hard plastic or icky, sticky rubber. But a single evening with Eva, the couples’ vibrator by Dame, changed that forever.

After just a peek at the Eva, it was easy to get both of us on board with giving it a shot. I had no idea how open my husband would be to try it out (he was very open, it turns out!), but Dexter works in tech, and so he was drawn to Eva’s gorgeous design and beautiful packaging. We both loved its incredibly soft, almost skinlike feel. 

The real magic of Eva, though, is in the thoughtful engineering. What makes Eva so different is its funny little “wings.” These two flexible silicone extensions fit under your labia, which tucks the vibrator right up against your clitoris. It stays safely in place for stimulation while you have sex. I read the helpful little manual on how to get Eva situated, and although I was a little nervous about positioning it just right, Dexter was more than willing to help. It was actually remarkably easy.

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Then, you get going! At most, you need one finger to hold Eva in place, depending on the position you and your partner choose. We found it stayed put without assistance—truly hands-free, just like it claims! And Eva is really quiet—whisper-quiet—so we could even use it once the kids were asleep.

But here’s what made this little toy so transformative. Once Eva was in place and my husband was inside me, I felt like it disappeared. Aside from the sensation of the vibrator, I could hardly tell it was there. All I experienced was the most amazing stimulation. The vibrating sensation, coupled with the feeling of my husband… it was perhaps the most intense orgasm of my life.

I’m one of the lucky few women who can achieve orgasm during penetrative sex, but about 70% of women can’t. Eva was designed to close this “pleasure gap” during sex for women and men and fill a void in the sex toy market.

The co-founders of Dame Products, the makers of Eva, brought their unique experiences to create a product that empowered women to experience truly great sex on their own or with a partner. Alex Fine has a Masters in Clinical Psychology from Columbia University, focused on sexuality, and Janet Lieberman has a mechanical engineering degree from MIT. Together, they first launched Eva first as an Indiegogo project, raising over $500,000 to bring their dream to market.

After just one evening with Eva, we were sold. One of the most surprising aspects of this new addition to our sex life? We started planning “evenings with Eva.” And it’s safe to say that we both very much look forward to them—now just the anticipation of what we know will be reliably incredible sex creates a feeling of juicy fun in the days or hours leading up to our date.

This article originally appeared on Prevention US.

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